Friday, June 10, 2022

I miss my camps!



In northern New England most of us call them camps, not cottages or cabins. I was  lucky enough to have had two of them. 



My first camp was not really mine, but as a kid I felt that it was.  My grandfather built it in the  mid 1950’s by the shores of  Merrymeeting Lake in the Lakes Region of New Hampshire. My  grandfather was an avid fisherman, and the area lakes, ponds and streams provided new  opportunities for him. However, he was not able to enjoy the camp for long. He died soon after its completion. My mother named the camp “Joe’s Haven” in memory of her dad and painted a sign with that inscription.

The camp was a simple structure. It was small and had no insulation, running water or indoor toilet facilities. We carried drinking water from a nearby spring, and we bathed in the lake. For a 10-year-old boy it was better than a palace. The camp was only for sleeping, eating and reading comic books.  The rest of the time was spent out of doors. My cousins and I fished the lake, shot BB guns and .22 rifles; water skied, swam, walked to the local snack bar to play pinball, explored the woods, visited the fish hatchery, read comic books and generally enjoyed our days as young boys should.

My grandfather’s camp sat on a “back lot” a short distance from the lake, but my Uncle Tony built his camp at the water’s edge, and that is where we spent much of our time. My uncle worked long hours but he always had time to take us water skiing. Uncle Tony was proficient at virtually any task, including removing frogs restricting the water flow in the spring pipe. Despite his gruff exterior, he was not without a sense of humor. One dark night he did a decent imitation of bear growls on his tuba from his hiding place in the woods while my aunts huddled in fear inside the camp.

Our favorite local restaurant was located beside Club Pond in New Durham and, at best, could be described as little more than a shack. The restaurant was called Dot’s Lunch, but we called it “Ernie’s”. Ernie and his wife, Dot, owned it, managed it, served great food, rented rowboats, sold bait and were always optimistic about our chances of catching fish. “The fishing is so good you have to hide behind a tree to bait your hook”, was one of Ernie’s favorite quotes. Fly fishing that pond for rising trout at dusk brings back some of my fondest memories from that period of my life.

The excitement of the upcoming hunting season was always enhanced by turkey and deer shoots sponsored by the Farmington (N.H.) Fish and Game Club. The shoots took place next to Ernie’s restaurant and always seemed to draw a lot of people. Obviously, no turkeys or deer were harmed during these shoots, but the turkey and deer targets took a beating

In my latter high school years the camp still served as a terrific refuge on weekends for me and my friends. Soda had been replaced by beer, and magazines had taken the place of comic books, but little else had changed. The lake water was still clear; the spring still provided great drinking water; the loons could still be heard; and the camp still served as arelaxing getaway. We had some great times.

I met my wife at the camp in the summer of 1965 and we married less than a year later. Wespent most weekends there the following summer, and I wish I could have those times back.The days and nights were simple and enjoyable. There was no television, but the radio pickedup a great station, WPTR, out of New York. Ernie had replaced the “shack” with a much largerrestaurant, and the food was still great.

Joe’s Haven was sold a few years later, and my mother’s sign is gone now. The camp remains, as do my memories of times spent there. But I was determined to have a camp of my own that my family could enjoy for many years. By the early 1970’s, I narrowed my search to the Rangeley Lakes region of Western Maine.

With a very young family, money was scarce, but I found a deal that could not be ignored. The Brown Company of Berlin, New Hampshire was leasing waterfront lots on several lakes in that region for $100 to $200 per year. I visited two of the lakes and walked the roads and beaches, taking notes as I walked. Lot #35 on Aziscohos Lake seemed perfect. I could lease the one-acre lot with 200 feet of water frontage for $150 per year. I could not believe the opportunity presented to me by the Brown Company.

The following spring, I was standing beside a pile of lumber and other building materials that had been delivered to the site of my future camp. The total cost of the lumber, cinder blocks, roofing paper, nails, windows and door, including delivery, was roughly $750.00. My construction-related experience to that point had been limited to building pigeon coops and forts as a kid. This was going to be a bit more challenging.

Thank Heaven for youth, enthusiasm and energy. There was no electricity, so I had to cut every board with a chain saw or hand saw. Every piece of building material had to be carried down a hill to the future site of the camp. That was the good news. The bad news was that the black flies were due to appear any day. Anyone who has ever encountered black flies in the North Country knows what a scourge they can be. I learned that nothing deterred them. Repellents quickly sweated off, and head nets were as annoying as the black flies.

Building that camp was one of the most rewarding, and most difficult, projects of my life. It measured a mere 16-feet by 20-feet and stood roughly 100-feet above the lake. We dug out and lined a spring and piped the water down to the camp. It provided a constant, reliable flow of water. An outhouse served as our toilet facility; a wood stove heated coffee; a small fire pit with split hardwood cooked our food; and we bathed in the lake.

large cooler with blocks of ice served as our refrigerator. I fished for salmon in the lake, and hunted deer and partridge from the camp. Books, magazines, games and a battery-powered radio provided entertainment It all worked. It was all simple.

One of our most challenging endeavors at the camp was showering in the fall when the lake water temperature dropped. This involved heating water on the wood stove; filling the plastic solar shower with the heated water; hanging the device from a tree branch close to the camp; and timing the wetting/soaping/rinsing cycle closely to avoid running out of water too soon. Most people would be amazed how pleasant a warm outdoor shower can be, even in frigid temperatures, at least until the water runs out.

Our two kids loved their camp from the start. There was almost uncontrollable excitement at the mention of heading to camp. The trip from Massachusetts to Maine took roughly four hours but seemed much more. The final nine miles of the drive took place on a logging road.The bumps and ruts needed to be navigated cautiously.  Moose were not plentiful in western Maine in the early 70’s, but their numbers increased rapidly in the next few decades.Moose/vehicle collisions became common. The biggest danger on the logging roads, however, came from the fully-loaded logging trucks. It was important to drive to the right of the road, particularly at curves.

There was always an urgency to arrive at the camp before nightfall. Without the benefit of moonlight, nights in the North Country woods can be very, very dark.  Making trip after trip from the car to the camp holding a flashlight in one hand and any number of items in the other, with little kids clinging to you, was a real challenge.

We sold the camp after owning it for more than 30 years. The cost of building materials and furnishings had totaled less than $1,000.00. Our original investment of money and labor had certainly paid us back in money and memories.
 
I miss my camps for many reasons. Most of all, I believe I miss the simplicity. And I miss the olitude and the quiet. I could stand on the beach at Aziscohos and hear the wing beats of a raven hundreds of feet overhead. I rarely hear the sound of loons now, and I miss that. Both of my camps had distinctive, pleasant smells that come back to me at unexpected times. More than any other sense, the sense of smell seems to hold the greatest power for allowing us to briefly remember better times.

A camp can be a true refuge from the harsh realities of the outside world. I always felt safe from physical and psychological harm at my camps. Also, a camp gets you back to basics. This can be extremely important, particularly in stressful times in our lives. Ask any camp owner about their feelings for their retreat. Be prepared for a lengthy and nostalgic description of  the place and times spent there.

My permanent residence now is in the Great North Woods of New Hampshire. Many homeowners in this area also have camps, and they love them. I can fish and swim in a trout stream bordering my property, and I have seen bears, deer, moose, foxes and wild turkeys from my front window. I still would still like to own a camp. But it needs to be kept simple. 

Sunday, March 3, 2019

Police officer survival - the enemy within

The common adage, I am my own worst enemy, may well apply to today's police officer. They survive attacks via firearms, knives and fists but succumb to injuries and illnesses that may be preventable. In an article titled Life Expectancy in Police Officers: A Comparison with the U.S. General Population , author John M. Violanti compared the risk of death and longevity of police officers to those parameters in the general population, and it doesn't sound good for the men and women in blue.

No single study can ever be evaluated as conclusive, but Violanti's study showed a very significant difference in the life-expectancy of police officers to that of the general population. Officers displayed a mean difference of 21.9 years as compared with the general public. In other words, according to this study, cops die at a much-younger age, both while still in service and during retirement, than members of the public.

To put this into perspective, the study projected the probability of death for a general-population male, age 40-44, to be .0034 - and that of an officer in the same age range to be .171 - a major difference. Violanti et al also projected that same officer to live only another 12.38 years on average - while the general-population guy is slated to go on for 44.96 more years. The major questions here involve why do police officers die young and what can be done to attenuate that issue.

Let's start with stress. The major sources of stress originate from things over which we have little-to-no control. A relaxed conversation in the station can end quickly with a 911 call of a fatal accident, shooting, suicide or robbery. Waiting around in court waiting for your case to be called - while in a state of deprived sleep - can take a toll. Arguments and disputes with the command staff or fellow officers is all too common. Domestic-dispute calls can transition from calm discussions to through-the-roof violence in a heartbeat.


All too often, the officer that is passionate and dedicated to his job is not so determined to take care of him , her her, self. Obesity, poor diet, alcoholism, poor sleep patterns, lack of exercise and the every-present stress of the job are far too common. These are generally factors over which police have control. What you can't control may cause the most stress, but conversely, you have almost-total control over your fitness level - which in turn, positively affects your health. This is all about nutrition (You become what you eat), exercise and smart supplementation.

Nutrition

Trying to lose weight? Get off the treadmill! Cardiovascular exercise has little effect on weight loss for most. What to eat? Go for color. The chemicals that color the fruits and vegetables protect you from disease. Look for yellow, red, green, orange, purple. Eat wild foods when you can. What protects the wild blueberry in the field guards you against disease. Eat plenty of protein, including quality whey powder - which I don't include in the supplement portion of this article since I regard it as virtually necessary. Count calories. Guys eating 1,500 calories per day most of the time lose weight. Little time to eat right? Microwave a cup of cooked spinach - throw some turkey breast, red lettuce and sliced onion in a pita pocket. Learn nutrition. It is invaluable.


Exercise

Use exercise as a stress reliever. Walk, run, hike and bike for recreation and accept the calorie loss as a bonus. As already stated, 45 minutes on the treadmill or stepper won't get you lean. But 10-12 minutes of intense cardio can assist with health, sleep, mood - and general well-being. Do strength training. Go for power and strength. They can be developed relatively quickly. Police officers need both in their daily duties. Gradually let your body adapt to performing your first sets of a muscle group as a heavy, one-rep set - without a warm-up. It can be done. You won't be allowed a warm-up before taking down a large brute that wants to fight. That is my point.

Supplementation

As already stated, if you aren't taking whey protein, you are making a mistake. The benefits are tremendous, and it is a quick, effective way (no pun intended) to get additional protein. For regularity, nothing beats psyllium powder. You won't like the taste, but it works like a charm. Doctors usually don't recommend supplements, but many are now suggesting patients take vitamin D. Definitely a good idea. Most supplements are useless, so learn about them and choose wisely. Taking the right ones can improve quality of life and extend it.

The job of the patrol officer keeps getting more complex and stressful. Make an arrest and you can be criticized from all sides. You will be judged for years on a decision you had to make in one second. A judge will exonerate a criminal you and most others know is guilty. You can't control that. Focus on yourself. Work on your health, physique and mental attitude. One of the pluses in being a police officer is the retirement plan. You want to complete your stint in law enforcement and live a long time in retirement. You want to outlive the bastards that sought to bring you down when you patrolled the streets. That is your goal.


Saturday, January 20, 2018

Gyms are intimidating to seniors - prove you belong

As I write this, my wife, Linda, and I are spending the winter in South Carolina as I approach my 74th birthday. Our permanent home is in the North Country of New Hampshire, but it is too damn cold to stay there. I am a former Research Engineer, Police Lieutenant/Investigator and present Health Coach/Personal Trainer. My background is diverse, and my professional and life experience will be combined into all of my blog posts. While avoiding purposely offending anyone, I will be direct.

We joined a gym down here upon arrival and go there most days of the week. Monday was Martin Luther King day, and our gym was mobbed. The place is huge, but I could hardly move in there without getting bumped. I have worked in health clubs for the past 25 years, and it often occurs to me that many of these people, a large portion of which are seniors, don't belong here. Not yet.

Don't get me wrong, besides being a Health Coach/Personal Trainer, I am a dedicated gym rat. My point is that most of these new members will fail, never to be seen there again. That is tragic. Gym owners and staff will dislike what I have to say, but it needs to be said.

I will state emphatically, that virtually everybody needs a gym, particularly older folks. But most gyms focus on the bottom line, money, not results. Most gyms give little guidance unless you pay for it, usually in the form of working with a Personal Trainer. Those facilities that offer free assistance often limit what is offered. So what are the novice seniors doing wrong. Virtually everything. The seniors I see exercising correctly are gym veterans. You need to become one.

My first question to new gym members spending huge time of the treadmill is why so long? You are not burning nearly the calories that you envision, and more than 20 minutes of treadmill time is excessive. If you very overweight, maybe your starting point should be Weight Watchers and some outdoor walking if the climate in your area allows it. Simple calorie restriction and increased movement work over time.


The sit-in-a-strength-machine-and-do-little crew is a problem for veteran gym members that can't use the machine and for the machine's occupant that is getting nowhere. I timed a guy on an abdominal machine in my gym for at least 15 minutes. I had no intent to use the machine, but it was obvious other folks did. There is no need for a gym member to do 15 minutes of ab work and tie up a machine. A large part of what I was seeing was lack of knowledge. The man was doing little to help himself.

Planet Fitness has revolutionized the gym industry. The business model focuses on inexpensive membership fees and the sad reality that many members won't stick with it, but will not cancel due to the low dollar amount each month. I find most of their gyms top-notch. But if you join, don't be one of the ones that never go, thereby paying for those that do.

It is mid-January, a time when most people decide to get in shape. Here are some ideas. You will hear other views from Johnny the Gym Rat or Tammy the Trainer, but this is my blog.

1.) If you are overweight, cut, count and control calories. Nothing good will happen if you fail to do this

2.) If you join a gym, act like you belong, and you eventually will.

3.) After a maximum of 20 minutes on the treadmill, get off and do some strength training.

4.) Comparing the difficulty of weight loss, fat loss, muscle gain and strength improvement, gaining strength is the easiest if done right. Muscle gain is the most difficult. Doesn't sound right, does it? Trust me, it is.

5.) Springtime produces the best fitness results, but now is the time to get going. If you start doing the right things now, by late March you will be rolling.

6.) In my lectures over the past 25 years, I have spent the bulk of my time trying to correct erroneous ideas on weight management and fitness. I will not do that here. It is a waste of your time and mine.

7.) I will be posting on a regular basis on this site and including many non-fitness tips on senior survival. Please stay with me.

Follow Tom at @TomLaneHC

Photo via Damian Dovarganes

Friday, November 3, 2017

The perfect home gym for any age

If you are past the age of fifty and know you will use a home gym for something other than a dust collector, read on. First of all, if somebody tries to sell you on starting your gym with a resistance ball, ignore them. If your local gym has Chair Aerobics classes for seniors, tell them you'll be back when you hit 100 years of age. If you see a one-machine-does-all piece of equipment, move on. I am a Health Coach and Personal Trainer approaching 74 years of age, and I use all of the items I am about to recommend, as do my clients. Also, I have absolutely no financial interest in any of these products.


The first items are the P-Fit Push Up Bars at a cost of $39.95 from Amazon. They are strong, light, stable and versatile. They can be used for push ups, L-sits, pseudo planches and much more. More information on these and other exercises to follow in future posts.


This is the Perfect MultiGym Sport, available at Dick's Sporting Goods for $29.99. I was amazed at the simplicity, stability and strength of this item. It is used mostly for pull ups, with many people using resistance bands for assisting the movement. With much caution, using this unit with gymnastics rings (see below) allows for an amazing variety of workouts. If I could own only one piece of fitness equipment, this would be it.


Resistance bands, or pull up assist bands, will be needed by most older folks to accomplish even one pull up. They can be found for sale at most sporting goods dealers at an average cost of roughly $25.00 per band. They are usually well made and rugged. Obviously, a thin band supplies very little assistance while a thick band delivers a major assist. Again, more on their use in a future post.


Don't let the thought of gymnastics rings scare you away. Forget what you have seen with the male gymnasts at the Olympics. Most of us will not be doing that. But they are extremely rugged and useful. The cost is $38.99, and use the link below to find them on Amazon.

https://www.amazon.com/Gymnastic-Rings-Straps-Gymnastics-Crossfit/dp/B00WBTCBRI/ref=sr_1_25?s=sports-and-fitness&ie=UTF8&qid=1509636416&sr=1-25&keywords=gymnastics+rings

The New Year is roughly two months away. If you are tired of hitting the skids as far as fitness, strength and health, please stay tuned to my blog. You don't want to be tired, weak and frail in today's world. You don't have to be. The next blog will deal with the safe, effective use of these items. If you only buy one of the above items, I would recommend the Perfect MultiGym. But all four of the pieces total about $135.00. Be on the lookout for my next blog.

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Wednesday, October 25, 2017

Time, comfort and curiosity - their profound affect on aging


Time seems to stand quite still
In a child's world it always will- "Morning. Another morning" by The Moody Blues


The days for a child pass quickly but the years pass like a slow-moving freight train. As an adult, I want the same. Time, or at least our perception of it, can be controlled. Here is Scientific American's James M. Broadway on the subject:
“Where did the time go?” middle-aged and older adults often remark. Many of us feel that time passes more quickly as we age, a perception that can lead to regrets. According to psychologist and BBC columnist Claudia Hammond, “the sensation that time speeds up as you get older is one of the biggest mysteries of the experience of time.”
"Engaging in a novel exploit makes time appear to pass more quickly in the moment. But if we remember that activity later on, it will seem to have lasted longer than more mundane experiences."

That is where curiosity and comfort enter the picture. We need curiosity to engage in novel exploits, and we need to get out of our comfort zones to accomplish this. The curiosity factor truly separates kids from adults. These are some ideas from ExploringYourMind:
"Understand that the shadow of old age looms when you stop learning, when your curiosity fades and you live more in your memories than in your dreams. This isn’t the right way to handle it."
"Never open your eyes to a new day without a project to complete, a goal to achieve, or a gratifying activity to invest your time in.
Don’t stay at home all day."

So where do you start. With filling your day. At 76 years of age, I walk outdoors and do strength training in my basement. As a child, I was constantly outdoors exploring or in our basement in Reading, Massachusetts doing chemistry experiments and taxidermy. I even made my own gunpowder from scratch. That resulted in a few noisy experiments in the gravel pit behind our house. My parents had no issue with it and I never came close to getting injured. My days were filled, and they passed quickly. Here is Scientific American's James M. Broadway once again:

"This phenomenon, which Hammond has dubbed the holiday paradox, seems to present one of the best clues as to why, in retrospect, time seems to pass more quickly the older we get. From childhood to early adulthood, we have many fresh experiences and learn countless new skills. As adults, though, our lives become more routine, and we experience fewer unfamiliar moments. As a result, our early years tend to be relatively overrepresented in our autobiographical memory and, on reflection, seem to have lasted longer. Of course, this means we can also slow time down later in life. We can alter our perceptions by keeping our brain active, continually learning skills and ideas, and exploring new places."

As an older adult, I still spend a lot of time outdoors exploring, and as a Personal Trainer and Health Coach, I am always in my basement changing the layout of the gym or inventing new exercises for myself and my clients. But I found it wasn't enough to fill the days, which often passed slowly.

The change came about with an e-mail from a Boston Celtics blog site looking for writers. They asked for a brief life history and a writing sample. I never expected a response, but I got one. They would give me a shot. I had never been a sports writer and was far from a computer whiz. I had to learn everything in a couple of weeks, and it was tough. I was truly out of my comfort zone, and during the trying several weeks, I thought of giving up. But with a lot of help from a fellow-blogger, I got through it.

It often takes a stimulus from another person to get us moving and changing our lives for the better. My father and brother followed the now-outdated path of working hard, retiring early and then doing little. They both died at 64 years of age. I vowed I would not follow their lead. It didn't work for them, and it wouldn't have worked for me. Older folks need to take clues from others, but choose those folks wisely. Of the many things I learned as first a Research Engineer, and later as a Police Investigator and Health Coach, the most important was nothing is ever what it appears to be. Don't try to keep up with the Joneses unless you know where they are going. Someone we feel leads a perfect life may be on the verge of having that life collapse. Don't follow.

As kids, we had no computers. If you wanted a question answered, you went to the library or book store. Now we can have a question answered via computer in seconds. A computer is one of the best learning tools ever invented, and it is a great way to satisfy, and intensify, curiosity. Here are a few ideas on getting out of your comfort zone. If you stop moving, your body shuts down. I almost never stop moving, except when I am sleeping or writing. You need to take care of your body. My workouts are brief and efficient, often lasting less than 15 minutes. Also, you become what you eat. Learn more about nutrition from the right sources. There is a lot of bad info out there. Don't fall for it. Don't move to a one-story home to avoid stair climbing unless absolutely necessary. If you stop climbing stairs, you lose the ability to do so.

But most important of all, be aware of your surroundings. What is around you that can hurt you or help you? Stop being the person that tells stories from the past without any new endeavors to relate. If you are disappointed in your older adult life, change it. Hasten the days and slow the years. Get out of your comfort zone, and be curious about why things work the way they do. Become a child again, at least in some ways. Like yourself and the life you lead. My background is diverse and I have experienced much. But I learn something new every day. Stay tuned to my blog for some How-To's on surviving and enjoying your second half-century.





















Thursday, September 22, 2016

Senior Survival by Adaption--- "I'm not going easy!!!"


Okay, I get it!. I am 72 years old and have spent almost a quarter-of-a-century guiding people to a healthier and fitter life. I have also spent more than 20 years before that as a police officer. Here are some basic ideas on physical and mental adaptions that you may or may not have thought of.

  • Try glancing in your rear view mirror frequently. Trouble can come from behind as well as from the front or side. An imbecile doing 95 MPH and weaving between lanes can cause real problems when he gets to your location. Get into a safe lane and stay there until he passes.
  • If you walk with headphones, you have  lost one of your key senses necessary for survival. Realize this and make much more use of your sense of sight. Look around constantly.
  • It is fairly easy to hone mental faculties as we age. In part, I often rely on the computer. Timed solitaire games challenge us to think and react quickly. I'll be damned if I can get under 95 seconds, though. 
  • Another mental stimulator I use is Fantasy Basketball. My daughter came up with this idea. Drafting players, setting lineups, searching the waiver wire to improve your team and developing strategies to beat the other teams are fun activities, and you can win a few bucks.  

  • Predators seek easy prey. They look for the sick and weak. Try not to be either one. Stay healthy and strong. Walk with a strong, confident gait. Stay vigilant. Be aware of your surroundings, and make probable predators aware that you are aware of them. 
  • Predators will test your vulnerability by attempting to invade your space (get uncomfortably close to you). Be aware of this, and try to avoid it.
  • Older people often move to a single-floor dwelling to avoid climbing stairs, not realizing that not climbing stairs may eliminate the ability to do so.
  •  As a Personal Trainer I was once forced to teach a class of Chair Aerobics to a group of older individuals. There was no challenge in it for them. I now teach people in that same age group explosive moves, including Olympic power lifts. There is both challenge and real-life value for the clients.
The world is becoming a much more dangerous place. And it is happening rapidly. This is not a good time to settle in on your recliner watching Gunsmoke reruns. Challenge yourself; improve your physical and mental state; and try to learn something new and useful every day.

Sunday, September 18, 2016

Choosing And Using a Gym

Gyms are often a confusing and intimidating environment for people. Where do you start?

  • What is the cost? This is no longer a serious issue. Many gym memberships are $10.00-$20.00/month with few restrictions on cancelling. 
  • Is the gym convenient? Is it close to your home or work? Is it a pain in the neck to access the gym? Is it tough to park?
  • Who are the current members? Can you coexist with them? Are most of them out of shape, or are there some with the work ethic and physique to motivate you? 
  • Is the gym clean?
  • Being honest with yourself, will you actually use the gym? Will you actually go? The business model of many gyms focuses on inexpensive membership fees and numerous members, many of whom are rarely, or ever, seen in the facility.
Okay, you have joined a gym determined to get lean, strong and healthy. You are a new member, and everybody is looking at you---- or at least, that is how you feel. Hop on a treadmill, walk at a slow pace and get "the lay of the land". But if you feel that treamill will get you lean, you are badly mistaken. Changes in nutrition will get you lean, and exercise will keep you there. 

So you may ask, "Why the Hell am I here?" The answer is:
  • To get moving
  • To gain strength
  • To get healthier
  • To feel better
  • To maintain weight loss once it occurs

Strength is relatively easy to attain, even for older individuals. That is where the selectorized (weight stack) strength machines shine. Start there. These machines put you in a stable position that enable you to push and pull progressively heavier loads with minimal risk. There is, however, always a
risk of injury. Use the machine correctly; control your motions; and start with very light weights.
Just don't stay with light weights. Increase weight gradually, and safely, over time

Realize this, however. Your strength should increase rapidly, mainly due to increases in neuromuscular coordination (your brain learning to work with your muscles), but muscle growth will lag significantly behind strength gains. But muscle growth will happen. It takes time and effort.

The important point here is this: Get to know your body!!! Is it damaging pain you are feeling, or is it simply discomfort? Strength training can be an exhausting endeavor, particularly in the early stages. There should be no new injuries from a gym workout. If done correctly, the opposite becomes true. You should become more injury free.

As athletes get older, they lose some athletic ability, but they perform smarter. That is you. There is no reason that, down the road, you can't be performing free weight lifts like the strong, lean youngster working out in front of the mirror. You may not be lifting the same weight or looking quite as athletic, but you will feel great being able to just do it. Just increase the workload slowly and progressively. Avoid exercises that may be potentially causing injury, and try substituting other exercises that work the same muscle group.

What about cardio? Long, steady-state cardio sessions on a treadmill or elliptical do not have the fat burning potential that most people think. They do these sessions; expend much energy; look at the pool of sweat deposited at the base of the machine; and think that they have burned untold calories. No, they have not. It is very frustrating. Brief sessions of interval training (alternating high and low levels of exertion) for 12-15 minutes may be a better option overall. 

This only touched on the subject of gyms. The subject of fat loss (Why don't I say weight loss?) is next.